Ms. B. Discussions and Reviews

 Ah yes that is the question. A perfect opportunity to get your groove on presents itself to you but you do not take the bait right away. Is it pride? Maybe your own morality? Perhaps you would like more than the occasional romp? Maybe you are craving intimacy. Whatever the case is, something is making you question this seemingly easy opportunity to get your freak on.

On that note, you take a step back and consider the pros and cons.

Pros

1. The chemistry between the both of you is intense at times.
2. You get along well. Find the same things funny and can talk about anything.
3. This person makes an effort to make plans with you. In the near future and at times months later.
4. Single and quite available.

Cons

1. The person is 6 years younger than you.
2. They are still “finding their way”.
3. They do not have a place of their own.
4. Good relationship material if you were in your early 20’s. Or is that #1 again?

 Both pros and cons have 4 points. Which ones mean the most is what matters. I guess the bigger question is how much do you value the friendship? If you do not value it so much then going for just sex should be easy. Even though the other person may get attached. If you do treasure this friendship then keeping it platonic seems like the logical thing to do. Easy to say when you are craving a roll in the hay.

 Most have us have been through some kind of heartbreak. If you have not yet, it is only a matter of time. Sorry to burst your bubble. It is just a part of life. Sometimes if happens more to some than others. This does not seem very motivational right now, I know. If this is your first time going through a heartbreak, the way you deal with it makes all the difference.

First of all, acknowledge it! Do not deny what transpired. Whether it was your fault or not. After you acknowledgement, you will be ready to go through the other set of emotions. If you don’t you really won’t be able to move on completely. In the beginning, find ways and things to build yourself up again. For me it is music. I think I have a soundtrack for every emotion hahaha. If I could sing, I would make my own damn songs and sing them myself. Alas I can not, so I leave it up to the artists and songs that relate to what I am going through at the time. My list of songs are more suited for women at times. Why wouldn’t they be since I am a woman. Here are some song you might want to add to your ipod/MP3 and make a playlist for yourself. Feel free to comment and add your own selections.

• Real Love - Mary J. Blidge
• Karma - Alicia Keys
• Me, Myself and I - Beyonce
• Single Ladies - Beyonce
• Shut Up - Black Eyed Peas
• It’s My Life - Bon Jovi
• Be OK - Chrisette Michelle
• Like a Pimp - David Banner
• Survivor - Destiny’s Child
• Freak ‘em Dress - Beyonce
• Son of a Gun - Janet Jackson
• Control - Janet Jackson
• On to the Next One ft. Swizz Beats- Jay-Z
• Dirt off Your Shoulder - Jay-Z
• Hate on Me - Jill Scott
• Like I Used To - John Legend
• What Goes Around - Justin Timberlake
• Loe Lockdown - Kanye West
• Sorry - Madonna
• It’s a Wrap - Mary J. Blidge
• When a Woman’s Fed Up - R. Kelly
• You Don’t Know Me - T.I.
• Million Dollar Bill - Whitney Houston
• Salute - Whitney Houston

 It’s been a minute or two since I have updated my blog. So here I am again. It is the last day of summer and that means new shows are on television this week. Tonight being a big night. There are shows like Heroes, CSI Miami, House and Dancing with the Stars. I have seen all of these shows in the past. I can not say I watch a lot of TV now.

 The only show that really interest me is CSI Miami. Last season it ended with the viewers not knowing if Eric was dead or not. I think I speak for a lot of women out there when I say, if Eric is dead there is no reason for me to keep watching. Yea I’m superficial in this case. He’s sexy. With the previews of this new season, CBS made it look like the show would be going back in time. Showing us how they all became the team they are today. I hope that doesn’t mean Eric will not be in some kind of coma for a period of time. Anything like that would just piss me off haha.

 As for Dancing With The Stars, I don’t think I’m very interested in this cast. Mya should do well because of her background. Kelly Osborn might surprise everyone. Macy Gray is the wild card. Simply because of her spastic nature. You never know what you are going to get with her.

There is something on TV for almost everyone tonight. If new episodes of reality shows and sitcoms don’t float your boat. There is always Monday night football. The Colts are in Miami to play the Dolphins. Enjoy your night!

The official premiere of the new Malish music video is happening today. I’m not one to promote or big up anyone of anything that I don’t truly feel or like myself. Regardless of if you are my friend or not. I can’t be fake. When I support you, know that it is from the heart.

Malicious is from Montreal and with his latest video called Hometown featuring Adele; he continues to put Montreal on the map of hip hop world wide. Hip hop is not dead. It is alive and kicking in places you may not know exist. This video showcases some of the many areas of the city. Recognize that not every song needs a catchy hook or a rapper singing out his raps to be a hit. If you are like myself, send this video to your friends and post it on your social networks. At the end of this entry, you will see some icons like Twitter, Facebook, MySpace and so on. You can share this post with one click.

Without further ado I present to you, “Hometown”.

In this edition of one of my series Montreal’s Scene I want to showcase a local photographer who has been making a name for himself for the last few years. Known by many as Murddock by many and as the resident photographer for Orchid Nightclub. He has been making the weekend crowd famous by capturing every unforgettable moment. Besides working at Orchid he has put his skills on display by snapping pictures at weddings, special events at the Casino de Montreal and concert events in the city of Montreal.

Looking for a photographer in the Montreal area? Professional and knowledgeable. Take a look at the official website. http://mpfirm.com . There you can contact him personally for more information and browse pictures from concerts and Orchid Nightclub. Orchid is located on 3556 St. Laurent, Montreal, Quebec. http://orchidnightclub.com