Sep 23 2009
To Sex Or To Not Sex
Ah yes that is the question. A perfect opportunity to get your groove on presents itself to you but you do not take the bait right away. Is it pride? Maybe your own morality? Perhaps you would like more than the occasional romp? Maybe you are craving intimacy. Whatever the case is, something is making you question this seemingly easy opportunity to get your freak on.
On that note, you take a step back and consider the pros and cons.
Pros
- The chemistry between the both of you is intense at times.
- You get along well. Find the same things funny and can talk about anything.
- This person makes an effort to make plans with you. In the near future and at times months later.
- Single and quite available.
Cons
- The person is 6 years younger than you.
- They are still “finding their way”.
- They do not have a place of their own.
- Good relationship material if you were in your early 20’s. Or is that #1 again?
Both pros and cons have 4 points. Which ones mean the most is what matters. I guess the bigger question is how much do you value the friendship? If you do not value it so much then going for just sex should be easy. Even though the other person may get attached. If you do treasure this friendship then keeping it platonic seems like the logical thing to do. Easy to say when you are craving a roll in the hay.
