Sep 21 2009
Motivational Mondays- Heartbreak
Most have us have been through some kind of heartbreak. If you have not yet, it is only a matter of time. Sorry to burst your bubble. It is just a part of life. Sometimes if happens more to some than others. This does not seem very motivational right now, I know. If this is your first time going through a heartbreak, the way you deal with it makes all the difference.
First of all, acknowledge it! Do not deny what transpired. Whether it was your fault or not. After you acknowledgement, you will be ready to go through the other set of emotions. If you don’t you really won’t be able to move on completely. In the beginning, find ways and things to build yourself up again. For me it is music. I think I have a soundtrack for every emotion hahaha. If I could sing, I would make my own damn songs and sing them myself. Alas I can not, so I leave it up to the artists and songs that relate to what I am going through at the time. My list of songs are more suited for women at times. Why wouldn’t they be since I am a woman. Here are some song you might want to add to your ipod/MP3 and make a playlist for yourself. Feel free to comment and add your own selections.
- Real Love - Mary J. Blidge
- Karma - Alicia Keys
- Me, Myself and I - Beyonce
- Single Ladies - Beyonce
- Shut Up - Black Eyed Peas
- It’s My Life - Bon Jovi
- Be OK - Chrisette Michelle
- Like a Pimp - David Banner
- Survivor - Destiny’s Child
- Freak ‘em Dress - Beyonce
- Son of a Gun - Janet Jackson
- Control - Janet Jackson
- On to the Next One ft. Swizz Beats- Jay-Z
- Dirt off Your Shoulder - Jay-Z
- Hate on Me - Jill Scott
- Like I Used To - John Legend
- What Goes Around - Justin Timberlake
- Loe Lockdown - Kanye West
- Sorry - Madonna
- It’s a Wrap - Mary J. Blidge
- When a Woman’s Fed Up - R. Kelly
- You Don’t Know Me - T.I.
- Million Dollar Bill - Whitney Houston
- Salute - Whitney Houston
