Feb 13 2009
Stop Adding to the Fire
This is not a real photo of the battered Rihanna. It was doctored and is now being sent to your friends and their friends and their friends. You get my point. Stop sending out this fictitious picture! If you’re going to send it, at least inform your friends that it’s a fake. This is something I really can’t stand. The media and people in general, making up stories and claiming false truths. Haven’t you ever played the game telephone as a child? You know how it ends up. The first person starts off telling the second person a sentence or phrase. By the time it gets to the last person in the circle, the phrase ends up being something completely different. We can’t say what happen for sure that night between Rihanna and Chris Brown.
Fact: Rihanna did get her face busted.
That’s the only thing about this incident that is fact. We all know Chris most likely did bust up her face.
The story thus far is, Miss Robin Fenty (a.k.a. Rihanna) got upset after explicit messages were text-ed to Mr. Brown from another female. While arguing, she told him to bring her home. She got on her phone and made a fake phone call. Saying he’s driving her home now and have the police waiting. Allegedly that’s what set it off for him. In his rant he claimed he was going to kill her. That’s where the initial charge of issuing a threat comes from. At the moment, she’s supposed to be cooperating with the L.A. police and Chris Brown is in Vegas at the Hard Rock Hotel. No one has confirmed that but they did say that his friends were staying there. Who are these “friends” of his? I don’t know. No names have been mentioned.
Instead of taking sides in a matter that does not even involve you, look at this objectively. I will admit there are a small percent of women who really should get bitched slapped. (I’ll probably get some flack for that I’m sure.) Just because a woman does things to provoke a beat down does not mean it’s still right. This kind of abuse does not “just happen”. There is always a history of some form of abuse. Sometimes all it takes is a few signs. The problem is, when you’re int it, you usually don’t see it. Especially if it’s the first time going through it. There were obviously some jealousy issues from both parties. Being 19 and 21 is hard enough when you’re not famous. Relationships are usually full of drama when you’re that young. (Sadly for some, it never changes-God bless their souls.)
The truth will come out in time. I only hope that Chris pays for whatever he did as any other citizen would. Take the lead and make something positive out if it. As for Rihanna, she needs to have a sit down with Mary. Yup, Mary J. Blige. She’s gone through it all and back. Rihanna has a Bajan family. If anything, they can knock some sense into her. We bajans don’t play!
